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\"Faith<\/a>
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As I was trying to decide how to write what was on my heart regarding all the arguments around food choices, I came across this passage which pretty much summed up what I was feeling. I would encourage you to read the whole thing, even though it’s a bit long. This version put it in everyday language, but the basic meaning matches the 3 other translations I read.<\/p>\n

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Romans 14\u00a0\u00a0 (<\/span>The Message)<\/span><\/h1>\n

Cultivating Good Relationships<\/span><\/h3>\n

14\u00a0<\/span>Welcome with open arms fellow believers who don\u2019t see things the way you do. And don\u2019t jump all over them every time they do or say something you don\u2019t agree with\u2014even when it seems that they are strong on opinions but weak in the faith department. Remember, they have their own history to deal with. Treat them gently.<\/span><\/p>\n

2-4\u00a0<\/sup>For instance, a person who has been around for a while might well be convinced that he can eat anything on the table, while another, with a different background, might assume he should only be a vegetarian and eat accordingly. But since both are guests at Christ\u2019s table, wouldn\u2019t it be terribly rude if they fell to criticizing what the other ate or didn\u2019t eat? God, after all, invited them both to the table. Do you have any business crossing people off the guest list or interfering with God\u2019s welcome? If there are corrections to be made or manners to be learned, God can handle that without your help.<\/span><\/p>\n

5\u00a0<\/sup>Or, say, one person thinks that some days should be set aside as holy and another thinks that each day is pretty much like any other. There are good reasons either way. So, each person is free to follow the convictions of conscience.<\/span><\/p>\n

6-9\u00a0<\/sup>What\u2019s important in all this is that if you keep a holy day, keep it for God\u2019s<\/i> sake; if you eat meat, eat it to the glory of God and thank God for prime rib; if you\u2019re a vegetarian, eat vegetables to the glory of God and thank God for broccoli. None of us are permitted to insist on our own way in these matters. It\u2019s God<\/i> we are answerable to\u2014all the way from life to death and everything in between\u2014not each other. That\u2019s why Jesus lived and died and then lived again: so that he could be our Master across the entire range of life and death, and free us from the petty tyrannies of each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

10-12\u00a0<\/sup>So where does that leave you when you criticize a brother? And where does that leave you when you condescend to a sister? I\u2019d say it leaves you looking pretty silly\u2014or worse. Eventually, we\u2019re all going to end up kneeling side by side in the place of judgment, facing God. Your critical and condescending ways aren\u2019t going to improve your position there one bit. Read it for yourself in Scripture:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cAs I live and breathe,\u201d God says,<\/span>
\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u201cevery knee will bow before me;<\/span><\/span>
\nEvery tongue will tell the honest truth<\/span>
\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>that I and only I am God.\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

So tend to your knitting. You\u2019ve got your hands full just taking care of your own life before God.<\/span><\/p>\n

13-14\u00a0<\/sup>Forget about deciding what\u2019s right for each other. Here\u2019s what you need to be concerned about: that you don\u2019t get in the way of someone else, making life more difficult than it already is. I\u2019m convinced\u2014Jesus convinced me!\u2014that everything as it is in itself is holy. We, of course, by the way we treat it or talk about it, can contaminate it.<\/span><\/p>\n

15-16\u00a0<\/sup>If you confuse others by making a big issue over what they eat or don\u2019t eat, you\u2019re no longer a companion with them in love, are you? These, remember, are persons for whom Christ died. Would you risk sending them to hell over an item in their diet? Don\u2019t you dare let a piece of God-blessed food become an occasion of soul-poisoning!<\/span><\/p>\n

17-18\u00a0<\/sup>God\u2019s kingdom isn\u2019t a matter of what you put in your stomach, for goodness\u2019 sake. It\u2019s what God does with your life as he sets it right, puts it together, and completes it with joy. Your task is to single-mindedly serve Christ. Do that and you\u2019ll kill two birds with one stone: pleasing the God above you and proving your worth to the people around you.<\/span><\/p>\n

19-21\u00a0<\/sup>So let\u2019s agree to use all our energy in getting along with each other. Help others with encouraging words; don\u2019t drag them down by finding fault. You\u2019re certainly not going to permit an argument over what is served or not served at supper to wreck God\u2019s work among you, are you? I said it before and I\u2019ll say it again: All food is good, but it can turn bad if you use it badly, if you use it to trip others up and send them sprawling. When you sit down to a meal, your primary concern should not be to feed your own face but to share the life of Jesus. So be sensitive and courteous to the others who are eating. Don\u2019t eat or say or do things that might interfere with the free exchange of love.<\/span><\/p>\n

22-23\u00a0<\/sup>Cultivate your own relationship with God, but don\u2019t impose it on others. You\u2019re fortunate if your behavior and your belief are coherent. But if you\u2019re not sure, if you notice that you are acting in ways inconsistent with what you believe\u2014some days trying to impose your opinions on others, other days just trying to please them\u2014then you know that you\u2019re out of line. If the way you live isn\u2019t consistent with what you believe, then it\u2019s wrong.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n

I encourage all of you to really think about how we treat our family and friends when it comes to their food choices. If we ridicule them, or shame them, or make them look bad on social media or at the coffee shop, we are not pleasing God. He knows what’s in our hearts, and certainly knows what comes out of our mouths…or keyboards. As it says in the passage above, “Eventually, we\u2019re all going to end up kneeling side by side in the place of judgment, facing God. Your critical and condescending ways aren\u2019t going to improve your position there one bit.<\/span>” Let’s work on building each other up, and showing Jesus’ love through our words and our actions.<\/p>\n

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